When we look at someone else's wrongs or shortcomings...
When we look at someone else's wrongs or shortcomings, it's easy to miss our own since we frequently use ourselves as the measuring stick. In holding a grudge, how often do we forget all that we have done that people could hold against us? Yet we expect there to be a double standard. I should be forgiven, but not them. There is a lesson we can take from Alcoholics Anonymous: Speaking of the problem of resentment, The Big Book of AA says, "We realized that the people who wronged us were perhaps spiritually sick.
